20 Years Later: A Somber Anniversary

Denise Doring VanBuren, President General

Twenty years ago today, we gathered around television sets and watched in horror as the unimaginable played out before our eyes. We stared in disbelief at images that were beyond comprehension – too shocking to accept, too disturbing to look away. For many long hours after the fourth plane struck, we could barely breathe – terrified with fear as to what would happen next.

I live about 60 miles north of New York City, in one of many communities where firefighters, police officers and other workers find the affordable housing and quality of life that make it worthwhile to commute into the city. My family spent that afternoon and evening searching for familiar faces in the footage of tens of thousands of men and women streaming out of New York City on foot, across bridges and along highways. We waited for neighbors to return home. We hugged our children. We prayed that we would awaken from a nightmare.

The days that followed were more dream than reality, as we searched for answers and consolation with little comfort. I can remember for weeks afterward searching the September sky day and night, watching for the return of overhead flights. I worried that we would never again feel safe at a large sporting event or public gathering. I can still feel the frustration of being unable to answer my three young sons when they asked: “why?”

We may never be able to answer that question nor know what motivates evil – but we face the twentieth anniversary of the worst terrorist attack in our history aware that outstanding men and women voluntarily stepped forward to enter our armed forces in order to protect us from additional attacks in its aftermath. They have provided the strong national defense that has protected our citizenry in the same proud tradition begun by our ancestors when they answered our new nation’s first call to arms.

We must never forget their voluntary sacrifices. The events that occurred during the recent withdrawal from Kabul illustrated the relentless dangers these men and women assume on our behalf as members of our nation’s armed forces. Thousands of those who returned home will forever bear physical and emotional scars as a result of their military service. They have given so much in order that another September 11-style attack has not paralyzed our nation.

So, as we pause in solemn, private moments to recall the nearly 3,000 civilian lives that were lost on September 11, 2001, in lower Manhattan, at the Pentagon and in a Pennsylvania field, I ask you to also reflect on the lives that were willingly sacrificed by those who later raised their hand and CHOSE to take the following oath in the aftermath of the attacks:

“I, ____________________, do solemnly swear (or affirm) that I will support and defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic; that I will bear true faith and allegiance to the same; and that I will obey the orders of the President of the United States and the orders of the officers appointed over me, according to regulations and the Uniform Code of Military Justice. So help me God.”

One of those who voluntarily recited this oath was my eldest son, who had turned 11 just days before the attack. Truly, September 11 shaped his life and his destiny, as he would go on to graduate from the U.S.M.A. at West Point in 2013 as a result of his commitment to serve our nation on that singular day of national terror. An Airborne Army Ranger, he spent nine months in Afghanistan in 2017, and he continues to serve as a Captain. This makes me the first woman to serve as our President General and a Blue Star Mother. I am proud of him – and grateful to him, too. I know that as Daughters of the American Revolution, you are proud of all of those who serve in our nation’s military. Thank you for rising to support them time and again with grateful hearts and hands.

As we mark that 20th anniversary of September 11, I ask to you to remember not only the innocent Americans we lost on that day, but also the approximately 7,000 American service members who subsequently gave their lives in the two-decade-long War on Terror – as well as the Gold Star Families they left behind. Hundreds of thousands of Blue Star Families also sent their loved ones overseas to strange and foreign places to protect us here at home. Please: think of them today, too.

I thank you for what you do as Daughters to faithfully support these men, women and families through active involvement in our DAR Project Patriot and DAR Service for Veterans committees. There can be no higher calling than to express our gratitude for their willingness to rise as volunteers to protect our American interests here and abroad. Thank you, Daughters, from a grateful Blue Star Mother.

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